lost in the heat of it all.

22. Chicago. Baltimore.
music industry.
twitter: @emilyharbaugh.
~ Wednesday, April 23 ~
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In San Francisco last year, a man stabbed a woman in the face and arm after she didn’t respond positively to his sexually harassing her on the street.

In Bradenton, Fla., a man shot a high school senior to death after she and her friends refused to perform oral sex at his request.

In Chicago, a scared 15-year-old was hit by a car and died after she tried escaping from harassers on a bus.

Again, in Chicago, a man grabbed a 19-year-old walking on a public thoroughfare, pulled her onto a gangway and assaulted her.

In Savannah, Georgia, a woman was walking alone at night and three men approached her. She ignored them, but they pushed her to the ground and sexually assaulted her.

In Manhattan, a 29-year-old pregnant woman was killed when men catcalling from a van drove onto the sidewalk and hit her and her friend.

Last week, a runner in California — a woman — was stopped and asked, by a strange man in a car, if she wanted a ride. When she declined he ran her over twice.

FUCK YOU if you think that street harassment is a “compliment” or “no big deal” or that it’s “irrational” of us to be afraid because “what’s actually gonna happen.” Fuck you, fuck you, fuck you some more.

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~ Friday, March 28 ~
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what i’m into lately is a little weird.

what i’m into lately is a little weird.

Tags: but not really sam smith lykke li the black keys b.o.b ty dolla $ign maybe just the b.o.b song
~ Wednesday, March 26 ~
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-annoying:

i want a hot body but i also want hot wings

Tags: one THOUSAND TIMES YES
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~ Thursday, March 20 ~
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gabifresh:

penda-kenya:

kiriamaya:

raininginreverse:

I wish there was a codeword for “you sprung that plan on me too last-minute and I didn’t have enough time to mentally prepare myself” because I feel kinda bad when someone spontaneously invites me to do something and I’m just like no no no no I need wARNING I have to have enough time to build up my social energy 

I really wish people understood this.

Totally me!

YEP

This is literally why I just couldn’t date this one guy. He always wanted to hang out RIGHT.NOW. and even if I didn’t have plans it was just… no. no. I need N O T I C E.


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~ Friday, March 7 ~
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This has been the WORST WEEK

But since it’s my company’s “First Friday” I’m now drinking a beer and eating a soft pretzel soooo at least there’s that.


~ Thursday, March 6 ~
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So sad

because so many of the people I know in the office are going to SXSW for work and I am helping them prepare for the trip but I don’t get to go :”””””’(

Tags: i want to go back i miss u austin
~ Friday, February 28 ~
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urrrrrgggghhhhjfewakk

I’ve been attempting to leave my desk to go running for almost 2 hours now, but I keep agreeing to help out and then somebody will email me with something else and it just NEVER ENDS.

Tags: NEVER ENDS never i just wanna ruuuunnnn
~ Tuesday, February 18 ~
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humansofnewyork:

"My mother died rather suddenly when I was eighteen. One thing that I didn’t expect was the amount of resentment I would feel. I know it’s not fair of me to put that sort of thing on other people. But when I see someone walking down the street with their mother, I feel jealous. I know their relationship is going to have its ups and downs, and it’s going to evolve, and it will have this trajectory to it that I’ll never have, and it just seems unfair. Of course I know it’s absurd to talk about fairness in the universe.""Why is that absurd?""Because there’s no such thing as karma. I mean, when you’re a good person, people can sense it and they’ll reciprocate that goodness. But the universe isn’t keeping some balance by guaranteeing you a reward."

I would get stupidly angry/upset when other people would talk about how their dad didn’t do this, their dad didn’t do that because SHIT at least your dad is still there to complain about. As I’ve gotten older a lot of the anger has transformed into sadness, but this person has really just hit the nail on the head.

humansofnewyork:

"My mother died rather suddenly when I was eighteen. One thing that I didn’t expect was the amount of resentment I would feel. I know it’s not fair of me to put that sort of thing on other people. But when I see someone walking down the street with their mother, I feel jealous. I know their relationship is going to have its ups and downs, and it’s going to evolve, and it will have this trajectory to it that I’ll never have, and it just seems unfair. Of course I know it’s absurd to talk about fairness in the universe."
"Why is that absurd?"
"Because there’s no such thing as karma. I mean, when you’re a good person, people can sense it and they’ll reciprocate that goodness. But the universe isn’t keeping some balance by guaranteeing you a reward."

I would get stupidly angry/upset when other people would talk about how their dad didn’t do this, their dad didn’t do that because SHIT at least your dad is still there to complain about. As I’ve gotten older a lot of the anger has transformed into sadness, but this person has really just hit the nail on the head.

Tags: yes yes yesss
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Literally the beeessstttt weekend I’ve had in forever

save for a few unmentionable things. But I mean…. did you have Champ from Anchorman pinch your palms? lololol. 

Tags: lizette and emily go to milwaukee lizette and emily make bad decisions
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~ Sunday, February 16 ~
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